APPROACH TO DEPRESSION.


  A depressed person. Photo source: Google


For your information, suicide is not fun by the way. I see many people making fun of suicide and suicidal people. If you only try to read about suicide a little bit more, you could have more clue about it.

Yes, you say that people who talk, share suicidal quotes and  ideas are attention or validation seekers. Well, it's actually lack of love,compassion, acceptance and attention that pushes them to that activity. 

And instead of giving some meaningful attention and time that costs you nothing,  you just choose to make the world a worst place and  make them feel unwanted? You are too cruel if you ever chose to make fun of them instead of having sympathy towards them and make them feel better and valued.

Well, every single person in this world who believes he is a human being has a big obligation towards the ones who feel low. You do not necessarily have to lose a precious person by suicide for you to start realizing that your ample time and attention could have saved that person.


Hey! People have different problems and different ways of dealing with them. You should be in a position to comprehend that. You may give your time and become someone who helps a person to deal with his problem, or ignores their weakness but please I plead with you; do not be that person who pushes them away and makes ill fun of them to only make them feel even worse.

Fine, you've full right to ignore everything they say, but at least make people express their feelings, emotions and ideas freely. Maybe you will not be a reason that they had a bad day. 

And probably, these people may not really need your attention, but when you disrespect them for what they're doing and for what the entire world is doing with their lives, you make it worse and even add another problem into their life. Honestly, you all should remember that the mind has a complex job, and these people will not bring their depression on purpose. Therefore I  once again I plead with  you, if you cannot help a person get over a problem, don not turn to be the problem to the person. 



Comments

Anonymous said…
What a piece! Painting the picture of the sad reality we live in. Joking about someone's suicidal thoughts is just alleviating their condition. If anything this people should be held accountable. If you can't offer help just zip it.
Nicholus Quavo said…
And also don't trust everyone with your problem 😜
Daisy Vera said…
This a nice article, dealing with depression is not easy